When students study abroad in Spain and live with host families the
relationship between the two parties is mostly a business relationship.
The student is paying (indirectly through their program) for housing,
food, heating, water, electricity, etc. and the host family is paid
enough to cover those costs plus a little extra to make having a student
worth their while.
Now, even though I said that this is mainly a business relationship
does not mean that students aren't able to get along with their host
families; most of the students enjoy their host families immensely,
myself included. The host families are very hospitable and do
their best to make our stay as pleasant as possible, but there are the
few horror stories where students receive the bare minimum of the
requirements in order for the host family to squeeze ever dime possible
out of the money given to them by our program. I have only heard of one
or two of these things occurring in our program and normally it is
nipped in the bud rather quickly.
I myself enjoy living with my host mother. I realize that living
with her is a business relationship and that I should retreat it as
such, but I am still able to get along with her very well and when my
roommate and I go out she asks us where we are going, when we will be
back, and she tells us to be safe, so she does care about us. I enjoy this grandmotherly affection from her. It is very comforting. The only
problems I have had with my host mother is that sometimesvery different from the food in the U.S. and it isn´t the best, but this is a rare occurrence and I like the food she makes almost all the time.
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